I am in love with my district pastor. He is a young and handsome man of twenty-seven and I am twenty-five years of age.
My pastor is unmarried and I have noticed that nearly all the single ladies in our church are competing for his attention. I am a chorister and also a church worker and lately I have been thinking of one reason or excuse to go to pastors house and see him.
Not long ago I was on facebook and requested friendship from him. Since then we have been chatting but he does not really know who I am.
Last week after service I was among the last people to leave the church and I was so jealous and angry when I saw one of the church ushers a very pretty and provocative young lady laughing and chatting excitedly with the pastor before she got into his car and they drove off.
Two days ago, he asked me how he can see me in person on facebook and I did not respond.
Please advice me on what to do now. One, I am very angry and jealous over this ‘man of God’ that I am thinking of leaving the church. Should I agree to see him now he has asked me? This happens to be the opportunity I have been waiting for.
If I do decide to see him how can I explain the fact that I have been hiding my identity on facebook from him all this time. Will that not discourage him from associating with me in future. I need urgent advise because I am in love.
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